This is Nepal

       It was the second bus I had run to that day. My Ama and I were returning from Abua, where our Aunt gives us fresh milk every morning from her Buffalo. Despite how much I enjoy sitting outside the houses of our relatives, looking over the fields below while sipping tea, I was trying to hurry us home so my Bauju wouldn't be stuck doing all of the cooking alone. As I caught up to the bus and grab one hand around the nearby railing, enough to hold onto in case the bus takes off mid-entrance (a fairly common occurrence in Nepal), my Ama came trotting behind with the milk and we clamber on.

       Well, more like we squeezed on, into a tightly knitted mass array of bodies wedged between worn seats. Though Nepalis are very hospitable when you are a guest in their house, they tend to be much less accommodating on crowded buses. There can be enough standing space for five people in the back of the bus (a lot for Nepal), and yet people in the middle will refuse to move back any further than forced. Aka, the front of the bus will look like the crowded pit of at a concert, while the back is spacious and open. I finally managed to wedge myself far enough into the bus that I wasn't concerned about toppling out the open door on any sharp turns. This, however, involved awkwardly leaning at a 45 degree angle over the seats of two nearby passengers, nearly falling in the lap of an older Nepali man, and straddling a goat (yes a goat) on the bus floor.

      Nothing shocks me too much on a bus anymore. But the most amusing thing about this bus ride, was that the lady with the goat seemed very convinced that I was going to step on her goat. My feet were carefully placed far from the goat, and I was more in danger of falling on nearby passengers than on her badly placed goat. Despite this, the small, fabric-wrapped lady continued to give me a strong push against my arm every thirty seconds or so. She obviously was not very happy. And I was near laughing at the strangeness of the situation, as I was falling into the lap of this poor old man.


The man looked up at me with a wrinkled grin and chuckled, cheer in his eyes. And the first words he said to me, with an amused laugh, as I grabbed at something to support my awkwardly angled position, was "Yo Nepal Ho!" - This is Nepal.

We had an enjoyable conversation for the rest of the bus ride, as the woman behind me continued to give me a few pushes every now and then in defense of her goat. Mud huts and bushy trees passed us by, as our bus rocked back and forth up the road home. His hilariously translated statement has stayed with me, in every moment when I'm again reminded that I'm not in the cozy town of Port Townsend, the busy lifestyle of Thousand Oaks where there's always a Starbucks not to far out of the way - but rather in Nepal. In the middle of green, loving, loud, chaotic, beautiful, breath-taking Nepal.


          I'm reminded when my Ama calls me in to see spiders the size of my face that have made their way in to our house. I'm reminded when my father tells me that if I don't sleep with a blanket over my face my head I'll have a sore throat in the morning. I'm reminded every time I go into school and hear students chanting pages of their textbook from their wooden benches. This is Nepal, ladies and gentleman. This is Nepal.



            Where students will thrust their notebooks into the small space between your face and the other student's book that you are currently checking. Where you might have to pry their affectionate arms from around your waist just to walk into the classroom. Where teachers will reprimand a child for hitting another kid and, as their punishment, proceed to hit them (more on that to come). This is Nepal - where black eyes, and scrapes and sores are normal, and school uniforms torn to the brink of literally falling off still cling to young students' bodies.



      This is Nepal, where people telling you that you're getting fat is supposed to be taken as a compliment, and where anything medical related is rarely tmi or kept private. Where MASSIVE amounts of rice are consumed everyday, and where despite eating the same food everyday, people will always say their favorite food is Dahl Baht.




          This is Nepal, where students call "Miss, Miss, Miss!" - a chant that will be ringing in my ears for years to come. Where neighbors sit in front of their houses, and always ask where you are going when you pass by. Where strangers ask you if you are married and then almost always follow up with the question: "which is more enjoyable - Nepal or America?"

This is Nepal. Where fog brings in the cold, and the school bells ring to bring my teachers wrapped in colorful scarves and hats. Where I spend nights sitting on my green carpeted floor stapling together yet another activity book for my students, craning over lesson ideas and new games. Where I can leave my school work behind to crawl into bed with my Bauju and lean over her tiny new born baby. His eyes will open just wide enough to make out my shape.

This is not cozy Port Townsend or bustling Thousand Oaks.
This is Nepal. Green, loving, loud, chaotic, beautiful, breath-taking Nepal.